TikTok just got safer ... in theory

Young people can’t get enough of TikTok - and with good reason. But it makes parents nervous - also with good reason. Now, the app has launched a range of safety features designed to address mounting privacy and abuse concerns. 

Even before the coronavirus pandemic, TikTok was dominating the teen social media space. Today, with more than 100 million users worldwide, the free video-sharing app reigns supreme - its popularity surging on the back of school closures and other restrictions. 

But parents have been understandably anxious about the app, as recent investigations have found kids as young as eight being groomed and bombarded by explicit messages.

In theory, the TikTok's new features will address some of these concerns, allowing parents to control their kids’ in-app screen-time, restrict direct messaging and block some content. The question is: what real difference will these new features make? 

Commonsense Media describes TikTok as “an interactive world of videos that lets you connect with friends and admirers through likes, comments and even duets.”  Users can create short, shareable videos, or record and watch videos of themselves lip-synching to popular music. 


Sounds like fun, right? And it is - huge fun. That’s the first point to understand. There’s a reason kids - and increasingly adult users too - find TikTok so engaging. Its content is fast, furious and often genuinely funny.

But there’s a darker side to TikTok as well. Last year, the company was walloped with the biggest fine in the history of the US Federal Trade Commission - $5.7 million - for violating child privacy regulations. And the app has been widely recognised as as a magnet for paedophiles and predators. 

Public accounts by default

All TikTok accounts are public by default - and that means any one of the app’s 100 million users can watch your child’s videos. Even more concerning, they can also send them direct messages and use their location information. The new safety features - known collectively as “Family Pairing,” attempt to address those risks.

Age restrictions

TikTok has always had age restrictions. Account holders must be 13 and older, and those under 18 need parental permission. 

Under the new safety features, direct messaging has been turned off, by default, for under 16s. 

How is any of this enforced? The short answer is, it’s not. Again, all kids need to do is enter a false birthdate and they’re in. 


The new parental controls

The new features can be enabled on your child’s phone and protected with a passcode. Or, parents can create their own TikTok account to manage their child’s usage. 

Either on your child’s app or your own, tap the three dots at the top right of the user profile. Select “Digital Wellbeing.” You’ll see the following features:

Screen Time Management  Here you can decide how much time your child can spend on the app, up to two hours per day.

Restricted Mode  In theory, this blocks mature content, but cyber experts note that the workings of restricted mode are at best fuzzy but it seems to rely entirely on users flagging inappropriate videos. In other words, this feature is not the equivalent of setting parental controls on Netflix or the App Store.

Family Pairing  This option lets you control the settings above, and also disable direct messaging, by synching your account to your child’s. It needs to be set up on your child’s phone, using the Digital Wellbeing screen.

Can kids bypass these controls?

Yes they can - easily. All they need to do is re-download the app and create a new account using a different phone number or email address.

The verdict

While welcoming any effort to protect young users, cyber experts have criticised TikTok’s latest safety features as a case of too little too late. They maintain developers ought to have considered children’s safety before launching the app, instead of applying a band-aid after the inevitable damage has occurred.

The company maintains “Promoting a safe and positive app experience is our top priority,” and points to its in-app Safety Centre, which offers a library of educational resources for users and their families. 

“We also encourage parents to have an open dialogue with their children about how to be responsible and safe in all online activities.”

In-app parental controls can only take you so far - and that usually means not far enough.

Use Family Zone to manage TikTok and other apps and games seamlessly, from your own device - and create a home where digital children thrive.

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